Chomolungma Musings – 5.28.2012

Home sweet home airport…

I arrived home early Sunday AM (Denver time) after a quick helicopter-aided departure from base camp to Kathmandu followed by the looong flights home.  I had time to contemplate, process, and digest (excepting that chicken-like dish they served in-flight) many things on the 15-hour flight from Delhi to Newark, thanks in part to United leaving the interrogation-style reading lights blasting the entire way and the rhythm-less 4-year-old that sat behind me working on his far-distant futbol or field-goal kicking career (and clearly with his current rhythmic skills professional dancing seems to be out of the question for him).  Regardless, I was thinking of the 5-ish stages of grief, which include (with apologies to Doc Reilly since I took his Psych 101 class over 20 years ago):  denial, anger, hunger, sleepiness, need a haircut/shave, depression, still more hunger, acceptance, and need a shower.  Something like that.  As I said, it’s been a while.  But, I’m home now (very gratefully), have finally slept (a little bit anyway) and am lingering somewhere between “more hunger” and “needs another shower” at this point.  I think this shows great progress though in only a few short days, but, again, I’m no expert…

Life does move on though, doesn’t it?  The team has all summited, returned safely to base camp and now are drinking their way down the Khumbu Valley.  I can almost hear the celebration from here.  I just hope there’s enough San Miguel on hand to keep this team properly hydrated on their descent (a key, yet often overlooked, component of descending any big mountain successfully — my own descent was diminished by the Flagyl still in my system (violent side-effects when combined with alcohol) that prevented me from drowning my sorrows appropriately on the way down… life can truly be cruel at times).  Regardless, the fact that all remaining team members stood on top and made the safe descent to base camp in remarkable time is a testament, again, to the strength of the team and each individual on it, the good conditions on the mountain, the (what sounded like) pristine weather they had on summit day, the quality of the support and decision-making of IMG throughout a tumultuous season, the unbelievable strength and character of the Sherpa team, and a collective will to endure what was a very tough Everest season.  Truly impressive.  My hat’s off (pay no attention to the current mullet, though, thank you)!

The reality is that Everest is a very unique mountain that requires a lot of mental fortitude and physical toughness to climb.  It draws us to it because of not only what it is (the world’s tallest peak) but also because of what it stands for (a way to measure ourselves in extreme conditions in an extreme environment for months at a time).  To that end, I think I got out of Everest what I needed to… for the most part.  All except the fun climbing and the big, only truly unobstructed view on earth (ok, admittedly, there’s a bit left on the table), but the reality is that after nearly 30 years of climbing I’ve turned around on more peaks than I’ve summited.  Often times, conditions, weather, personal conditioning, health, injury, etc. force a hasty retreat and that’s simply a part of climbing and sticking around.  As the expression goes:  “There are bold climbers and old climbers, but few bold, old climbers.”  This retreat is a bit unique in that it was on one of the most iconic peaks in the world (if not the most iconic) and was caused by a health issue at just the exact wrong moment in time, which forced 2-months of effort to be for naught.  But, this very thing happens all the time to all sorts of climbers (many/most of whom are much more accomplished than I) on all varieties of mountains (large and small).  C’est la vie.

The bottom line is that my passion for climbing and adventure has not subsided in the least as a result of this disappointment (sorry Mom).  In fact, this trip may have reinvigorated it and certainly refocused it on objectives that have been on my list for years (some of which have been on the list for much longer than Everest ever was).  Ama Dablam (unbelievably beautiful, and to have finally seen that one in person…), Cerro Torre & Fitzroy in Patagonia, Mt. Shinn & Tyree in Antarctica, Mt. Cook, the Matterhorn, the Eiger, Mt. Kenya all come to mind and none take 2-months away to attempt.  In the immediate future, I’m going to do the Casual Route on Long’s Peak and likely a few others, hopefully in preparation for routes up El Cap and Half Dome in Yosemite later this year.  I have always wanted to experience big wall climbing and hope to take full advantage of some of the time I will have this summer to do so.

Certainly, in the end, this “failure” does not define me.  I’m neither diminished nor enhanced as a result of this experience.  It simply will seep slowly into my being and the collection of experiences that have accumulated into the person I am today and who I will become tomorrow.  No more, no less.  As I awoke this morning (laying diagonally and decadently across my king-sized bed), walked to the fridge to grab a Odwalla GoMega-Berries drink and took a hot a shower, I realized that I have a terrific life with much to be thankful for and much to look forward to.  I will proceed from here, I hope, with humility, grace, generosity and possibly the occasional touch of class.  Try to hold me to those standards if you will.  Goodness knows, I could use the help.

Finally, I’ll close (thankfully, I know) with a line I was reminded of last night by a beautiful, young Brazilian lass that I wrote in a letter to friends over 15 years ago, which stated:

May this note find you in both good spirits and good health.  As always, please remember to take care of yourselves and each other, pass along any stories of good fortune, and upon occasion allow yourself the luxury of being the big yellow lab in the car window cruising down life’s highway simply feeling the wind blow through your hair.

May the wind find its way through your hair (thinning or not) often and when you need it most!  All my best…

8 thoughts on “Chomolungma Musings – 5.28.2012

  1. So glad to hear you are back home. I think that you were so enhanced by your experience — you took on someting few people on this earth can do — your spirit may be down a little — but your climbing spirit is still there and that has been enhanced by your Everest experience. I’m sure it has had a great impact on your life — maybe you don’t see it right this moment — but you will. You have so much to be proud of. We were all worried and excited for you and followed your every step for those 2 months. That you didn’t summit isn’t important — but that you tried is very important. You have a great life and you enjoy every moment of it — recognizing that is key. You are a very special and unique person. I hope you have kept notes of all of your adventures in life and hope some day you write a book because your spirit would come through to any reader. You truly have a gift for adventure and writing — makes a great combination for a book.
    Enjoy your summer and I am sure you are already making plans for another adventure. No grass will ever grow under your feet. Stay safe. Keep in touch. Love, Aunt Pat

  2. This is what I admire most about you Jim. You know how ro prioritize what’s most important in life and you stand by that, with a note of humor to spice it! And you are already planning your next adventures! We could all learn to live our lives in the light of this wisdom. Looking forward to getting in some hikes/climbs with you upon your return. Hugs!
    Laurie

  3. This Mt Everest climb will remain with you as a chapter in your journey but clearly the last chapter has not been written.

  4. Wekcome back home Jim!!!! Looking forward to seeing you. Tom and I are In the mountains until Wednesday, back to work on Thursday. When do you think you can come by so we can buy you a well deserved drink and some high calorie food?

  5. Jim, you are a class act, and also a very good writer. I am certainly not going to blow my party toast here, especially when you aren’t even linked to Facebook or other social media distribution mechanisms, but I respect, admire and love you. Look forward to seeing you soon…

    xo
    Di

  6. Good to see you on home soil. I have followed every word of your updates and those on Alan’s blog religiously. I can’t fathom the emotions you are going through although you write so those of us who will never be in a situation like the one you so eloquently describe can get an idea of what you are going through. No doubt you made the right decision and the joy of being home and seeing friends and family will reinforce it. I look forward to seeing you in person soon!

  7. You are indeed a class act Jim but it was a very different dynamic going for the top without you than it was for the many days, weeks, and months leading up to that final push with you. Thank you for always being there for your teammates and I only wish we could have returned the favor when you needed a miracle recovery of your own. We’ll see you on June 15.

  8. Hey Jim,
    Amazing accomplishments and done with dignity and grace. Myself and family will always pull for you. Nothng but blue skies ahead.

    Reg

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